Every love story or a relationship has to face some hard times at some point, and only then the quality of this love will be revealed.
The loving couple will find out if their love is true and worth fighting for! Or it was just an illusion! Or it was just a good time and that is all
Here, with these hard times that seems to be very dark, very hurtful and damaging to our emotions, we grow up! We find out the reality of ourselves .
We find out whether we were truly in love or not! , we find out if we are strong enough or not, and above all, do we really want this love or we will be better without it?
And while we are seeking for answers, we start to look around which makes us realize that love isn’t perfect for anyone and never was! , also we understand that no one is having a perfect relationship, but those who stays together are the ones who choose to fight for it.
Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, the perfect couple, Had been there! , they faced very critical times in their relationship that everything seemed to be going to the end, And here the man had a moment of silence with himself, and he could discover what he really wants and what he should do .
For example, the surgery that Angelina had, was the most difficult time for her and her family, but how Brad was there for her And how he managed this, perfectly rescued the entire relationship .
Back to 2013, When Jolie told the world that she is having a preventive double mastectomy after she knew that she carried a mutated BRCA1 gene, which will cause her cancer, the whole world was in shock, but she didn’t slow down or even give up .
Actually -according to People magazine- through her tough three operations to remove and reconstruct her breasts, her spirit wasn’t law at all, and even after her last procedure by only three weeks, she was so open about telling what she experienced, But all this strength she had wouldn’t exist without the great support of Brad Pitt.
Frank Pollaro -Brad’s friend and furniture-design partner – said about brad “In my mind, he’s already married,This is an admirable person, a man with a deep love for his family.”
Moreover, Doctor Kristi Funk, who was Jolie’s doctor, said that Pitt has been always at Jolie’s side for every surgery, he was doing all what he can to make her laugh and smile.
In addition, the family insider-according to People- said about how brad acted at home “Brad did everything he could to keep things secret and protect Angie,”, By Using early-morning appointments and rental cars to avoid discovery, “they really wanted Angie to be able to recover and rest before they shared the story. Brad was very attentive and sweet to Angie. He always dotes on her anyway.” the source added
Pitt told USA Today he looked back on the experience as “an emotional and beautifully inspiring few months.” His “proudest thing is our family,” he added. “This cancer isn’t going to get that.”-according to people.
So he didn’t choose the easy way, the superstar who is an idol for many girls around the world didn’t leave! , actually he took care of Angelina and his kids, Besides this wasn’t the only hard time they faced, you can add these emotional times that Any family faces during the wife’s pregnancies, and the brave decisions you have to take when you decide to go for adoptions, also the loss of someone close like Angelina’s mother in 2007 who was the closest person to her heart, Plus the breaking up and cheating rumors! , Obviously it wasn’t an easy journey to take.
Brad and Angie were there for each other, and that is how it should be for any healthy and real relationship! , they also seek for each other for advice about their projects and movies, they love to make sure that they are there for their kids no matter how busy they are.
Clearly, Brad cares a lot about his family, as he once told PEOPLE, “We’ve had a family, we’ve raised the kids. I’m surprised how much marriage meant to me once you had that,”.
Also – according to people – Robert Green who met the family through Pitt’s Make It Right foundation in New Orleans said about Brad and Angie, “he is the engine; she is the backbone.”
So it is always about love, about loyalty to your partner, and to be there when they need you.
The healing process for Jolie would have been much harder if she hadn’t someone like Brad beside her, he showed her his love, celebrate every occasion and event with her even during her surgeries!, He also brought her gifts that made her really happy.
With a deep look into the Brangelina love story we can figure out some stuff, that nothing is ever perfect, but it is about us to make things better, also treating every hard time as a motivation to move forward with our partner hand in hand is a smart thing to do .
Angelina strength and her ability to give love during these critical times of her life is remarkable and admirable, also the commitment and passion of brad that he showed through all this, and that he didn’t give up everything!, are lessons that we all should learn.
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